I came across a fallen tree

[basildestiny]

I signed up with Match.com and eharmony.com to try to get out there and find someone easier than just trying to find someone by accident. But I've come to the realization that as much as I try to avoid saying I am one type of person in the chance that I don't really meet the standards--I really am an alterna-chick. The definition of the word not the stereotyped, has to wear a certain outfit, or hang with a certain crowd. I'm not Avril Lavigne's little stereotype. Nope. But I don't think the way some of the other gals think and I don't dress the way they dress--even when I have a body that would look good in those outfits. And I'm going to stop worrying about finding someone. I just freaked out a little this week. I figured I might. It was mild, but just one of those things where I wanted to find someone to talk to. And those bands who speak to me, continue to speak to me and speak to me for the same reasons. I'm ecclectic with my music as I'll ever be and I can listen to nearly everything. But those alternative bands that spoke to me ages ago, still do. Just a little realization I've reached. Which is a good realization. I'm not alone. So many artists speak to me, there definitely are folks out there like me.

Screw the labels!
~Bas

Comments

[waking-epiphany.livejournal.com]

Good for you, Bas. It seemed like you were settling before, and you don't deserve to settle. You are awesome and deserve an awesome person to be with.

[basildestiny]

I wouldn't settle. I was just waiting for something to make me move along. But I already had moved forward and didn't even know it.

[waking-epiphany.livejournal.com]

And isn't that they best way for it to happen? Wake up one day and realize things seem better, with just the passage of a little time.

I want to see your pages on match.com and eharmony!! Can I leave testimony on them on how awesome you are? I'll do it. But in a less embarrassing and weird way than my normal comments.

[basildestiny]

Awww! Aren't you adorable? I deleted my eharmony profile. Maybe I'll start it back up when I'm older or have $60 (more desperate) lol

My match.com profile is under basdestiny