High School Musical

[basildestiny]

Well Itunes had the soundtrack loaded. So I bought it! I love it too. Bop to the Top reminds me of Jesse and James so much. I can definitely see them singing it. I love how they all burst out into Spanish. And I love the line "shake some booty and turn around." They do this talking in the middle of their song and it's sooooo Jesse and James Team Rocket motto song. The sad thing is that right now I can only think of the Japanese Team Rocket motto! What's with that?

This duo is a brother and sister duo. She's older and more domineering, but he wants success just like she does. And he wears all of these pretty boy clothes. In that metrosexual way. And she's definitely the pretty, spoiled girl.

All they need is pink and blue hair!

I really want to see the beginning of this movie!

This morning, I woke up to a German Shepherd's face. He was laying on my pillow, looking in my face. I should have yelled at him or something because apparently he thinks he outranks me in dominance. Later on, he was sitting under my computer desk, knocking things over and I told him to get out from under there. He wouldn't so I tried to pull him out by his collar. And he growled at me. Then my husband grabbed him and manhandled him to put him up. So much for being dominant over me. He'll have to fight the husband.

Speaking of my husband, we may have our moments of being cranky and all of that, but I still love him. Sometimes he does some really thoughtful things. Like the week of the bomb threat, he brought me the umbrella because it was raining. Last night, I was having trouble sleeping so he rubbed my back.

I think I waited too long to settle down and get married. I'm glad that I waited because I was searching in the wrong places for husbands, but it would have been nice to have been married out of high school. Now I'm a jaded 25 year old who has been through so much that I've lost my optimism. Which is rediculous! My childhood was much more tough than my adulthood. I'm just out of that training phase. I'm not all bright eyed and dream minded. I need get over this phase I'm in. This mood I'm in. This rut I feel stuck in. The cycle of whatever.

From High School Musical the soundtrack, "We're soaring, we're flying. There's not a star in heaven that we can't reach."
~Bas

Comments

[spaghetti-os.livejournal.com]

But now you know what makes your hubbie so special! You've been with a few men to know exactly why he is The One. Isn't it nice knowing? My best girlfriend is in a committed relationship with her first boyfriend, a man she may end up marrying. As much as she loves him, she is still concerned that she doesn't know what/who else is out there, and she is afraid of never knowing.

[basildestiny]

Well I have to say that's a silly notion. You find The One based on your decision. You decide to love someone. But this is actually an entry I've been working on for the past two days so maybe I'll get around to posting it.

Now of course, you want to make sure that he feels the same way. But other than that...what is out there to find? It's that whole notion that you might find something better instead of trusting that the Lord has brought you that person.

My husband didn't date anyone else before we got married.

I think though if she has doubts, she definitely needs to re-evaluate her feelings.

I don't think all of the dating in between made me feel like I'd found the one. I felt that way with all of my boyfriends. But with Matt, we both felt that way instead of it being one sided. That was the missing ingredient. Finding someone who felt the same way instead of fighting the little boy who refused to grow up and take on responsibilities.

[spaghetti-os.livejournal.com]

I understand what you're saying, and I do believe that we are fated (destined, supposed to be, God's will, what have you) to be together in the way we are.

Chris and I both know we are The One for each other, but I really don't think I could fully appreciate the way that he is if I had zero outside experience. How do I really know? I don't. But I just know that there are things about Chris that I can truly appreciate because I know what it feels like to be in a relationship on the opposite end of the spectrum. Ditto for him.

[basildestiny]

Oh I definitely see your point. And it's valid and I'm sure that's why things happened the way that they did. I know that things happened the way they did for me because I was looking in the wrong places.

My own sin (or my inherited sin) is what caused my blindness and the need for God to teach me the way he did and show me Matt the way he did.

But I'm really getting into an entry I want to make, but keep forgetting to write up. And I'm also talking about correcting a busted system which caused all of us involved to go about things the way we went about them.

So I agree with you. I also regret that things couldn't have gone differently because Matt missed my "innocent" youth.

And... I know I'm missing something in this post. It's like I haven't addressed something you said, but I can't think of it right now. Sorry. :(